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Do your children a favour, make your funeral, cremation and funeral plans in advance and create your own living will.
Ian Strathie has been a funeral director for over 30 years since leaving the navy.
During this time there have been many changes to the industry, some he said were good, and some bad.
But the singular thing that stuck out to him was that “families are taking control”.
“When Kath and I bought Wray and Maida Owen’s business, all funerals were conducted by clergy or priests. No exceptions. Today, about 30 per cent, why? I don’t know,” he said.
“The real upside is that families are having their say, they are asking the questions and making rational decisions about the final farewell.”
Mr Strathie made a compelling analogy.
“Imagine with me: a daughter comes home and tells her parents that she is getting married. They are all ecstatic and over the moon. This is Tuesday after a long weekend,” he said.
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“The crunch is that the family have only three days to get it organised. The wedding is next Saturday. Yes, only three days away! What about the venue, the flowers, the invitations to family and friends, catering, cars, civil celebrant, orders of service? Just to name few.”
Traditionally this is what happens when someone dies, Mr Strathie explained.
“The funeral is expected to take place within three to four days – this does not have to be the way,” he said.
“There are lots of questions to be asked, details to find out, and arrangements to be made. Most of which can be detailed in your living will.
“Dealing with difficult issue takes time and thought. Take your time, talk with your family.”
If you would like a free living will kit phone Fiona at Wray Owen Funeral Directors on 4423 2333 or email info@wrayowen.com.au.