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FORGOTTEN NO LONGER - Raised in an orphanage, Billy Hughes welcomes the PM’s national apology

02 Nov, 2009 08:24 AM
SHOALHAVEN residents who were raised in government homes are being urged to take part in an official Federal Government apology for their treatment.

Member for Gilmore, Joanna Gash, has called for people who grew up in orphanages or as wards of the state to register for the event, which will be held in Canberra on November 16.

“This apology has been a long time coming and it’s an important step in the healing of people who suffered neglect or abuse in these homes,” Mrs Gash said. “I have personally heard from four people in the Shoalhaven who were affected, but I’ve been told there are quite a number more.”

Callala Bay retiree Billy Hughes is one of them.

He grew up in a boys’ home in Carlingford from the age of five, where he counts himself “lucky” to have escaped much of the abuse suffered by other children.

“I had a lot more freedom than the other boys,” he recalled. “I even had a little cattle dog as a pet, so I was often down the paddock with him. It was a good thing.”

Despite his relative freedom, Mr Hughes still remembers shocking treatment at the hands of his carers, including being used as a “guinea pig” for new medications and vaccines.

Other children suffered physical, sexual and emotional abuse.

“I have vivid memories of playing with the other boys and the strong camaraderie we shared, but that is the good stuff and there are obviously bad memories as well.

“I remember the day the police came to get me. They were trying to take my sister, and I reached up and pulled a brass button off the jacket of one of the men. I escaped from them that day, but they came back for me.”

Like many of Australia’s so-called “forgotten children”, Mr Hughes doesn’t know much about his childhood prior to the 11 years he spent in government care.

“I know some things, like my mother was sick and my father couldn’t look after us properly,” he said. “I was one of four children, and we were all given up at different times, but I haven’t got a full background of what happened.”

Mrs Gash says this is one thing many former foster children struggle with. “It’s very hard for these people to find out anything about themselves because of privacy laws and holes in their information,” she said.

Mr Hughes concurs: “Every time I try to find something out about myself, I’m told I’ll have to wait six months and pay so much. And when I do finally get them, the records aren’t up to scratch, there are big holes or it just doesn’t make sense.

“For me, the closure won’t happen until I can fill those gaps in my story, but the apology is a good start. We need to be recognised, because we’ve definitely been ignored for a long time.”

Mr Hughes is a member of a nationwide foster care support group, Care Leaver’s Australia Network (CLAN), which has welcomed the upcoming apology.

“It’s very important and very necessary,” said spokesperson Leonie Sheedy. “Everyone suffered in those hell holes.”

Around 500,000 Australian children were removed from their families and placed into public institutions this century. By comparison, around 150,000 indigenous children were re-homed under the Government’s Stolen Generation policy.

Today, Mr Hughes continues to keep in close contact with many of the boys from his home, describing them as family. But next month’s apology is still an important step in making peace with his past.

“I’ll be there,” he says. “It means a lot for many different reasons. We need to get this out of the closet and get on with it.”

Shoalhaven residents who want to take part in the apology can register by calling 1800 634 147 or contact CLAN via www.clan.org.au.

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Pictured: Callala Bay retiree Billy Hughes
Pictured: Callala Bay retiree Billy Hughes

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